Protip: If you bitch about tumblr being a place where you can vent and people aren’t supposed to call you out, you can’t call people out on what they put on tumblr. Fucker. I didn’t want you to know how upset I was SO I DIDN’T TELL YOU. SIMPLE AS THAT. Because you were always playing the victim (right up until the end) and it was always ‘my fault’ for ‘overreacting’ and ‘being a bad friend’ etc. Right. That’s what it is. Yup. It’s always my fault, and you literally did nothing wrong. You selfish asshole. And herein lies the core of this toxic friendship. Hypocrisy is not something that sits well with me, and it’s basically what I was surrounded by for the last year and a half :) That’s actually why most people actually hated said person by the end of senior year. It was kind of funny because all of his lies and playing the victim was as obvious to them as it was to me. My favorite part was when I made a joke that went over his head and he sent facebook messages to our mutual friend saying that myself and another mutual friends were drama queens and always overreacting. THEN he called me over to show me something on his laptop and left the message up in clear view. Then when I got justifiably angry, he sent me an email saying that it wasn’t as bad as I thought he was just saying that I was a bad friend to a mutual friend, thus altering a mutual friend’s perception of me with lies. He also told me that he has to go on apps like Grindr and complain about me to strangers just so he doesn’t stay angry at me. And that was his version of an apology… WOW OMG THANK YOU BEST APOLOGY EVER A+ WOW SO GREAT YOU ARE DEFINITELY THE VICTIM HERE And this sort of shit was what I had to put up with on a regular basis. Constant belittling of things that were really NOT okay with me. And yet through all this, he would say “just tell me you’re mad” and yet EVERY SINGLE FUCKING TIME I DID THAT he would play the victim and say I was over reacting. Like… I just… I literally can’t win. I don’t talk about my problems, he gets upset that I’m keeping my problems to myself. I do talk about my problems, and I’m overreacting. I just… What? It really bothers me that he is literally so blind to himself that he thinks this came out of nowhere.